总有人问你，有对象没？

呵呵，没有呢。

不会吧，不可能吧 ……

其实，那是真的，不是没人追，没人要，只是没有合适的；不是眼光高，要求多，只是没有感觉的。 也许有时想恋爱，想让自己不再寂寞，可是那个人却没有,不想随随便便的爱了。

有时候当自己静下心来会觉得自己的执着很可笑，为什么不去恋爱？为什么要让自己单身呢？难道是爱上了孤独爱上了寂寞吗？

其实不然，因为有一种单身叫“宁缺勿滥”。

他们对爱很专一也很执着,有自己独特的思想，能够坚持自己；在茫茫人海中只想找一个能让自己对上眼的人，也许在别人眼里那很傻，可是这样的傻只是想对得起 自己的心；让自己孤独让自己寂寞就是不可以让自己随便和人恋爱；前世的500次回眸才换来今生的一次擦肩而过，这样的虚幻不去相信，缘分没有多少，要得只 是感觉；不会轻易的去恋爱，不想去欺骗别人，也不想去骗自己，爱是纯洁的互相的，但如果一旦遇到那个他(她)就会坚持不懈，定下自己的心，绝不会花心，用 心去爱。

每个人心里都有自己另一半的身影的，就算是勉强找到另一半的你，难道在你的心里除了他（她）就没有另一个心底的人吗？在心里也会有对另一半的憧憬，希望彼 此的遇见是一个浪漫美丽的邂逅；希望他（她）是你的王子（公主），但却不会沉迷于这种童话的幻想，只想要那份属于自己的真实邂逅，不会去痴迷于王子（公 主），只要我的那个他（她），只是想找个懂自己的愿意陪伴自己的只是想找个懂自己的愿意陪伴自己的。

当你有一天真正遇到那个他（她），两人的交往中绝对会为彼此设定底线，不会轻易越过；尊重爱情，尊重感情，尊重彼此，不会随便开始，但一旦开始，那么就会是最珍惜生活的人。因为他们相信爱。

当遇到一个喜欢自己但没有好感的人，会礼貌而尊重的对方说“对不起，我们不适合”，尊重自己的感情也是尊重别人的感情，不会让对方浪费时间，如果对方觉得朋友可以做，当然我很乐意。但想要改变我的想法，不可能，因为他们不会轻易让自己妥协，除非你是哪个他（她）。

有朋友说，现在的社会已经不流行宁缺勿滥了，应该是宁滥勿缺，可能那是对的，但我却不想改变，难道这样错了吗？

不想像别人那样轻易的爱了，轻易的让自己不孤单了，当结束一段又一段情时不会有任何伤感，因为那样的人没有用过情，确切的说他们不懂爱与被爱,他们会对所 有的异性都有好感，不会执着与追求自己的那个他（她），相对于宁缺勿滥之人他们会更现实，也更会在恋爱中保护自己，因为分手后的他（她）不会知道痛的感 觉，他们不曾为爱付.而宁缺勿滥的人不是这样，他们从不会，会将一段情维持很长，哪怕结束时他们会伤心、痛苦、难过，但却曾经付出过，不会后悔，让自己刻 骨铭心的爱，是需要用心去等待，哪怕是用一生。

孤独，不一定不快乐；

得到，不一定能长久；

失去，不一定不再拥有。

Get used to it =)

Woots
Another week has passed
This week has been tired
SERIOUSLY TIRED
Tuesday woke up so early and know that the 8~9 am class cancel
Then after breakfast with my friend then rush to Sungai Wang to meet up with Jia Xin and Same Name
Hahas
Went to Sing K & Petrosains
Had fun pushing those shinny red button
Wednesday went to play futsal with people we dunno
Me and Ah Kang go lan suk people
Lols
Play till 7pm ++
Then Friday
FINALLY!
WE LEARN HIP HOP!
But
Its quite hard to learn
1st of all
Its fast
2nd of all
I dance like a complete idiot if i am dancing hip hop =w=
Thanks long leg and long hands
Zzz
Then the teacher want us to dance 3 dances straight away
1)Acrobatic
2)Cha Cha
3)Hip Hop
囧囧囧囧囧囧囧囧囧囧囧
I started getting use to Cha Cha
Hip Hop?
TRAIN MORE LAR CHING!
Today
WALAO
Went to Bukit Tinggi with some of my course mate
It has been years since i went there
It was a really fun trip =)
Thanks guy =)
~~~~~~~
我觉得我做到了
完全相反的我
比起以前的我
我还是喜欢现在的我
快快乐乐的
希望能继续下去
没有烦恼
没有爱情这个字在我的字典
没有了很多东西 =)
加油吧
I just wanna celebrate and live my life =)

Jia Xin =)

Woots
Another week had pass
A fine week indeed
Except 1 of my homework
Which i did a banana and got rejected =w=
Hahas
My 1st presentation and assignment is done
So damn happy =D
Siew is in hospital now
Still waiting for him to recover from the knee surgery
After he recover
Back to dancing classes
Well
Dancing class today was also fun
Hehes =)
Our teacher asked us to add some new moves into the Cha Cha & Acrobatic dance
And next week he wants to see
Well
Going to survey youtube for quite a while
Another 20 more minutes is Jessie Liew Chia Xin birthday =)
Hehes
We know each other for 5 years already lar sister
We might not meet each other for quite a long time
But still
Best Friends forever =)
Happy birthday =)
May wall ur wish come true =)

Week 3 had just pass
It had been great so far
Only 1 more assignment to do
And the hardest also
Had a few great days
Including playing basketball with the pro's
And playing with the girls
1 word to describe playing basketball with girls
DIAO =w=
Cannot block them
Cannot bang them
LOSE 99
BTW
Dancing was awesome =D
I learn a lot of things
Well
Competition is just 2 months away
Heard was Cha Cha and Hip Hop
JYJY ba everyone =D
2molo monday our Dai Ka Jie a.k.a Hui Yinn is coming to find us =D
Hahas
Kinda miss her scolding and her staring at people look xD
Well
I just wanna celebrate and live my life =)
To the Sky
A nice song =)

Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 100 Truths about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you.(To do this, go to "notes" under tabs on your profile page, copy and paste this note, erase my answers and enter your own, tag people (in the right hand corner of the app) then click publish.)

WHAT WAS YOUR:

1. Last beverage: Water

2. Last phone call: Meng

3. Last text message: Siew

4. Last song you listened to: Just a dream

5. Last time you cried : 想当年

HAVE YOU EVER:

6. Dated someone twice: no

7. Been cheated on: 数不清

8. Kissed someone & regretted it: YES ==

9. Lost someone special: yes

10. Been depressed: Yes

11. Been drunk and threw up: Once when i was still young

LIST THREE FAVORITE COLOURS:

12. Blue

13. White

14. Black

THIS YEAR HAVE YOU: (2010)

15. Made a new friend: a lot =)

16. Fallen out of love: dunno

17. Laughed until you cried: havent dao that lvl xD

18. Met someone who changed you: yes

19. Found out who your true friends were: yup

20. Found out someone was talking about you: Diao~ Keep let friend diao and zat me dao hen shuang xD

21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list: NO

22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life: uncountable

23. How many kids do you want to have: ask my future wife ba =w=

24. Do you have any pets: No

25. Do you want to change your name: If change to Jay de hua let ppl hit xD

26. What did you do for your last birthday? Let ppl GB...A LOT OF CREAM

27. What time did you wake up today: 7.05am

28. What were you doing at midnight last night: Mapling =w=

29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: dunno =w=

30. Last time you saw your Mother: My mum is my gf~ hehes xD

31.one thing you wish you could change about your life: Be a better person

32. What are you listening to right now: One republic Secrets

33 Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: Nah~

34. What's getting on your nerves right now: Nah~

35. Most visited webpage: facebook lus~

36. What's your real name: lols~ see FB

37. nicknames: Ah Ching, Kyle

38. Relationship Status: in a relationship with Yip Kyle Ching

39. Zodiac sign: Virgo

40.Male or female: Male

41. Elementary?: SJKC Lai Meng

42. Middle School?: Chong Hwa 4 years SMKWM 1 year

43. High school/college?: TARC

44. Hair colour: Brown and black

45. Long or short: Getting longer

46. Height: 183

47. Do you have a crush on someone?: No~

48. What do you like about yourself? : Height xP

49. Piercings: Nah~

50. Tattoos: Yuck

51.Rightly or leftly: Middle

FIRSTS :

52. First surgery: None

!53. First piercing: None

54. First best friend: Jessie Liew Chia Xin

55. First sport you joined: Badminton

56. First vacation: Penang ==

58. First pair of trainers: Walao~想当年

RIGHT NOW

59. Eating: No~

60. Drinking: Yes~

61. I'm about to: Sleep lus ==

62. Listening: Billionaire Bruno Mars

63. Waiting: Finish this tag ah diao ==

YOUR FUTURE :

64. Want kids? : See lus

65. Get Married? : Maybe~

66. Career? : A really diao de advertiser

WHICH IS BETTER :

67. Lips or eyes: Eyes

68. Hugs or kisses: Hugs

69. Shorter or taller: Taller

70. Older or Younger: Younger

71. Romantic or spontaneous: Romantic

72. Nice stomach or nice arms: Stomach

73. Sensitive or loud: Sensitive

74. Hook-up or relationship: Relationship

75. Trouble-maker or hesitant: trouble maker

HAVE YOU EVER:

76. Kissed a stranger: NO~

77 Drank hard liquor: Try once~ Keep laughing for no reason =w=

78. Lost glasses/contacts: twice gua

79. Sex on first date: Still clean ==

0. Broken someone's heart: No gua

82. Been arrested: Zzz

83. Turned someone down: No gua

84. Cried when someone died: No

85. Fallen for a friend?: Last time

DO YOU BELIEVE IN:

86. Yourself: sometimes

87. Miracles: No

88. Love at first sight: yes

89.Heaven: not really also~

90. Santa Claus: See dao 1st ba =w=

91. Kiss on the first date: Don't even want to try ==

92. Angels: See dao 1st =w=

ANSWER TRUTHFULLY:

94. Had more than 1 girlfriend/boyfriend at a time: no

95. Did you sing today?: diao~ everywhere also sing

96. Ever cheated on somebody?: sometimes

97. If you could go back in time, how far would you go?: till the time i in chong hwa

8. If you could pick a day from last year and relive it, what would it be?: the day i go see Jay Chou =D

99. Are you afraid of falling in love?: Yes

100. Posting this as 100 truths?: Yeah lar~ Diao ni ==

Man man do ba ==

Nelly - Just A Dream

It was just a dream

12.15am...
The clock still ticking away
I'm still here
Updating my blog
Darkness and loneliness is around me now
Well
A few update about me
1st week of college started already
It was quite fun
I actually did the most stupidest thing in my life (or maybe it was just for fun)
I took up dancing for my curriculum
It's kinda strange
My friend ask me join and i join without hesitation
Then after that i only remember got dancing competition that is compulsory to attend
囧囧囧
Saturday went to college for 1 hour class
Later that rush to Titiwangsa Monorail Station
To meet my best friend a.k.a Jia Xin =)
We went to Pavilion & KLCC
And we actually went to the Aquarium
Hahas
It was a really enjoyable trip
We witness how a pack of piranhas eat
And some other fun stuff
But then a sad news struck me
She is leaving Malaysia soon
5 years knowing each other
You are the longest friend that i know
I decided
I will spend all my time to accompany you while you are still here
At least you will have a happy memory =)
~~~~~~
谢谢你
让我看清楚
现实是残忍的
祝福你和他长久
我要开始新的生活
我要开始习惯很多东西
我要开始18岁的人生旅行
~~~~~~
It was just a dream